Too often when things don’t go our way, or we didn’t get something we think we deserved, we are quick to get upset and blame God.
We harp on the why nots and how come or how could he? The truth is that No that you received was actually a blessing.
We live in a world where everything is at our fingertips. With a touch of a button, you can turn on your car, post to thousands of people, fast gratification is what is in now.
In case you didn’t know, God doesn’t work like that. He never gives you anything before you are ready. When you ask God for something, are you actually ready to receive it?
Seriously, ask yourself:
I want a husband, are you ready to have a husband?
I want a new car, can you afford a new car?
I want a baby, are you ready to put yourself aside for your child?
I want a bigger house, are you taking care of the smaller house you’re in?
How come things can’t change, are you changing anything about your life to make this happen?
You see, when we ask God for things, are we really ready to receive them?
I came across a post on Facebook and it read, ” I wish God would sit down and just tell me what he wants me to do.” My response to that was, if he did, would you actually do it? Or since you know what he wants and will give you, will you continue to do your own thing?
When God would tell me no, I used to get so upset. So upset that it would steal my joy, my laughter, my outlook on the rest of my life. I actually would get mad at God. I look back now and think THANK YOU!! It was all immaturity.
I say that because if I had honestly gotten what I wanted then, I wouldn’t have even known what to do with it. If he had given me that boyfriend, that job, that extra car I thought I wanted, I’d be sad with a low income and an extra payment thinking to myself, how did I get here. Seriously, I asked for it.
Remember God does things in his timing, not ours. HE works on his time table. When HE feels you are ready, you will receive it, and not a moment sooner.
So until he is ready for you to have what you think you want, enjoy your singleness, enjoy your marriage, enjoy what you have going on right now. Enjoy your friendships, your free time. Those things are really a blessing. To be able to look at life on the more positive I haves instead of the negative I don’t have, that’s a real blessing.
Enjoy your moment now, and ask God what can you do for him, life will change and only for the better.
Anchored by Christ. Single mom. Shih Tzu lover. But first coffee. Toast to the good life. Proverbs 3:5-6.